These voice are made to convey each other,
It had been a decent long time don't you think so? I think I missed writing things about my life than writing the fictions that I imagined in my-not-so-creative-mind (not that I love writing ficiton less, no) But then again, it has been awhile since I rant about the things on the other side things-- don't you think so? I have been thinking lately. On things like my studies, my grades, the peoples around me and also my time management (which I still fuck it relentlessly, shamelessly) but of course there is something that I have not fail to think--
how do people convey message to educate.
Honestly, in my own perspective and my I emphasize this before hand- everything that I shall write here all are perspective matter and just the root of it all are my opinion but still you may disagree with me but I will be open regarding this.
You know, I am not calling myself observer but I fond of observing and hearing people on how they talk and such. But there are incidents or events where most of it made me think on how mere words, the tone of it and the message it was conveyed could tremendously affect one's feelings and mindset. I think most of us indeed are not foreigners regarding this matter, well because I am not.
I have experienced and saw the occurrence of event where a person yelled and insulted other people in hope to educate. "This is the way I could do so he/she won't do the same mistake again!" It made me think, thoroughly think. If such action carried out will deem to that latter the person, have you ever think of how that person will react or feel? Because I saw with my own eyes that the person who insulted in order to be educated (manners) bawled in front of other people.
It made me think again, if this what you call educate? Educating your peers, students or others? Do you educate others by insulting or snark at them as loud as you can? Embarrass them in front of the public? Honestly, it might educate- maybe 9%? But the remainder of it?
For me that person might learn, but will they accept such things? Such insults that have been impaled and blade his or her heart? I don't think so. There are many reasons why it won't work.
Sure people a mistake, but condemning them too much for a simple a mistake is too exaggerating. I will never understand why people have they waste their breathe, their temper on such simple mistakes where they could tell them nice and softly, "I know you didn't meant to make the mistake, I hope you won't do it again." instead of "What the fuck is wrong with you?! Can't you carry out a simple task?!"
I just find it saddening.
